Seto Ohashi Park 

Seto Ohashi Park 

We went to the Seto Ohashi Commorative Park last week but they closed earlier than we thought. So we went back today to play on the playground and go to the museum. Wow! The bridge is huge and it took them 9 1/2 years to build it. The park is beautiful, especially a series of fountains designed to look like the suspension parts of the Seto. Very cool!! Here's a link if you're interested :http://www.kagawa-edu.jp/sakakh01/enghtmlsrc/setobreng.html 

The garbage in Japan is really quite funny. There are 5 different kinds of gomi(garbage) throughout the month: combustible, incombustible, recyclables, PET bottles (which a most of the plastic drink bottles) and oki gomi (basically anything big around the house you don't want anymore, beds, couches, appliances, etc.). The combustible garbage is twice a week and all the others are on specific days of the month. It's funny to drive around the town in the morning and see huge piles of garabage on every corner. Ours at least has a basket to put the garbage in, it keeps it tidy! 

Our boss' house across the street. We stayed here for the first few days we were in Japan along with her husband, and two sons (one with a wife and two kids!) The juku (or tutoring school) where Joey teaches somestimes is the orange building with the window in the picture.  

A view of our street (it has no name, addresses in Japan are by blocks, not street names), we live at the end on the left. 

Callan outside the plastic display of McDonalds. We're not usually big fans of McDonalds, but you can't eat anywhere cheaper in Japan! 

Out for a Sunday evening walk near our house. 

Melissa and Callan playing soccer at the park along the river. We like the hat shaped mountain in the background! 

The front of our house with the covered entry way and sunroom to the left. The house stops behind the sunroom so the second story windows are the neighbors. The silver car is not ours, our boss' daughter parks her car at our house because there are not enough spots at their house. (And you can't park long-term on the street, it's too narrow!) 

The blue roof of our house from across the rice fields 

For Callan's birthday we went to the Seto Inland Sea Bridge Memorial Park. There is a large playground, a museum, and plenty of green space ( complete with real grass.) Some friends from the ward (Remy and Kelly Walthers, and Matt and Twila Jensen) came along and we had a picnic and Callan opened presents. This picture is of him and his new baseball bat. 

One Good Sunday

After church is always busy for us.  Today Melissa went Visiting teaching right after church so Callan and I hung out in the chapel until she was done.  While we were waiting I got asked to sit in on a lesson with the missionaries, so I passed Callan off to a few of the American sisters who were still at the church and Went with the Missionaries.  Melissa got done visiting teaching and took Callan home.  Meanwhile I got to see first hand the new missionary approach at work (by ‘new approach’ I am referring to the fact that missionaries no longer use memorized discussions, but are instead instructed to study the doctrine and formulate lessons based on the needs of those who teach. This is much different from even four years ago when I served as a missionary here).  The second lesson I was asked to sit in on was for a young woman named Makishita.  The missionaries met her while waiting outside the church for their free English classes to begin.  She came with book of Mormon in hand, having read and enjoyed 3rd Nephi Chapter 11.

The first thing I noticed was the lack of ‘stuff’ the missionaries had with them.  They carried no notebook, no lesson manuals, no flip charts, nothing except their scriptures.  The senior companion gave the entire lesson and the junior (who is really new and can’t speak much Japanese) bore his testimony at the end.

Weird doesn’t even begin to describe the feeling of sitting in on a missionary discussion in Japanese again after so many years.  I felt at once the desire of the missionaries to help Makishita understand the gospel, I felt the mix of interest and apprehension in the young woman as she experienced the new taste of Christian doctrine, and I also felt something new.  Something I hadn’t felt as a missionary. It was the feeling that I am sure many members had when they sat in on lessons with me when I was a missionary.  I felt a great concern that try as they might, these poor young missionaries might not be able to overcome the language barrier and teach this young woman the things she needed to know, and at the same time I felt a certain level of amazement about what was actually happening before me.  These two American missionaries with less than a year and a half of Japanese language training between the two of them were preaching the gospel of Jesus Christ!  Their audience was eager and the spirit was their.  The language was far from perfect, but the doctrine was pure, and Makishita could feel that.  

After the lesson I caught a ride home with my boss and her husband.  They are both ward missionaries and had been teaching new member discussions to Maki, the 22 year old woman who was baptized last week.  

This evening, after a very Japanese dinner of Miso soup, grilled salmon, salad, and sliced honey-do mellon, the three of us, Callan, Melissa, and I went for a walk in what could actually be classified as cool weather.  Fall has officially arrived in Japan, at least after five pm.  The evenings are cool, the sunsets are vivid, and the rice fields are full.  

After the walk we came home for family home evening.  Callan helped me choose some pictures from the ensign to use for a lesson and he ‘taught’ me and Melissa all about them.  We sang ‘As I search the Holy Scriptures,’ and then ate some apple crisp for desert.  

Callan has been going to bed very well lately, and tonight was no different.  After scripture reading I got him a little snack and a glass of water and then took him into the bathroom to brush his teeth (which consists of putting a very tiny amount of toothpaste on his tooth brush and asking him to open his mouth so we can ‘get all of the animals off of his teeth.’  He gleefully open his mouth as I hunt for Monkeys and elephants and giraffes and bunnies).  After the tooth brush got put away I helped him turn off the bathroom light, and then the bedroom light and he lied down on his bed in the dark.  I handed him his doggy and bunny, (Calvin’s tiger Hobbes would be jealous of the attention these two stuffed animals get) and tucked his blanket in around him.  I went to say goodnight but he grabbed my arm and said, “Daddy, story! Daddy, Story,” So I lied down next to him and began to tell him a story about a little boy who got in a big plane and flew all the way to Japan to live their for a year.  After the story I gave him a kiss, wished him off to sleep and closed the door.  The whole process took less than 20 minutes.  

And now, I am off to sleep myself.

More plugs for Skype

So, I just found an old friend on Skype named David Gaddis.   He was the young men’s president in my ward back in Provo and we worked together for a few months with the scouts.  He lives in Malaysia with is family.  He apparently signed up for skype so he could do some telephone business with somebody in China and skype did a search using his outlook mailbox and it found my information and sent me a note telling me that Dave was online.  So I came home today, saw his name on the computer and clicked it.  The computer dialed, and viola, I was talking to Dave Gaddis, who was actually in Israel when I spoke with him.  Technology never ceases to impress me.

High School life

Erina is a Senior at Marugame High School and is currently in the throws of craming for her college entrance exams.  She had do quit all of her club activities at the end of summer so she could have more time to study.  When I asked her what she had planned for the week she said, “I’m going to study for my semester finals all this week.  Then I’m going to memorize English vocabulary and archaic Japanese for my entrance exams.’  

Madoka is a junior at a prestigious arts and communications high school in Takamatsu.  She has a gift for drawing and a desire to study fine arts, particularly sculpture, in college.  She has a fairly regular homework load and is involved in a few clubs at school, including the photography club.  Her English is impressive for a sixteen year old, though she suffers from the same hesitancy that cripples most Japanese English speakers.  Today I asked her what she had planned for the week.  ‘I’m going to see two movies this weekend,’ she said, ‘and tonight I am going to study for a test.’

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Hello,

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You can add us to your contacts by searching for us.  My user name is joeybyu and you can search for me by my name, Joey Franklin.  Email us if you get signed up so we can add you to our contacts.  We still need to buy a microphone but they’re cheap, so  we’ll be up an running soon.

Curse the Narrow Roads, continued.

8:24 AM. Somehow I managed to back the little car fifteen feet and into someone’s empty driveway, throw it into drive and turn back out on to the narrow road. As I maneuvered the turn, the car lurched forward and I heard a loud metallic thunk. It took a half second to realize that I had just driven my front passenger side wheel off the side of the road and that the car was now stuck, dangling ever so slightly over the edge of a fully ripened rice patty. Thoughts of the accident I had caused just two weeks earlier filled my head and I imagined having to call my boss and tell her I needed a tow truck to pull me out of this rice patty. Not only would I be late for work, but I would have to pay for the tow truck and possibly for repairs to the car. On top of that it was raining.

Getting out and walking around to the front of the car near the ledge, I saw that though the car was stuck, it appeared to be undamaged. Relieved as I was that the car wasn’t about to teeter into the rice patty, I was still perplexed at how to get the car out. It was a small car, about the size of a mini cooper, but because it was the front axel pinned down it meant the weight of the engine was also pressing down on the concrete. I looked around to see if there was anyone who could help, but the road was empty. I looked at my watch—8:26 AM.

As I stood on the concrete gutter at the bottom of the rice patty with my chest braced against the wet front fender of the car, ready to lift, I thought of getting dressed that morning, putting on a favorite white T-shirt and musing to myself that I ought not wear it because I always end up staining it so bad that Melissa has to soak it for two days in Oxyclean. I weighed that thought against having to call a tow truck and settled on coming home with a dirty shirt.
A few attempts at lifting the car proved futile, and my hopes of getting out of there without calling a tow truck were teetering more than the car. As I stood in the rice patty, staring at the car and scratching my chin, a door opened to the house across the street and an elderly man stepped out into the rain. He wore black oversized slacks synched tight with a belt, and it appeared he had just slipped on a white button up shirt over the top of a white tank top that I guessed he’d probably slept in. Because his shirt was not buttoned I could see the aged state of his arms and chest. “Can I help?” he asked, rolling up one sleeve.

Why couldn’t I have dropped my car into a ditch in front of a sumo wrestlers apartment, or boys college dormitory, or just about anywhere except this skeleton’s house, ‘I thought as the old man approached slowly, obviously favoring joints that had seen a lot of use. Still I didn’t have a lot of other options, so, saying a silent prayer, I motioned him over and invited him to climb down into the rice patty next to me. We counted to three, and there, at 8:30 in the morning, standing in the rain at the edge of waste high rice shoots, that old man and I lifted the car off the edge of the road, sort of.

The car moved a little, until the inside of the tire was touching the edge of the road, but we didn’t have the leverage to lift the car completely. Bracing my body against the car, I asked the old man to get in the driver seat, put the car in reverse, and back it up as I lifted. He tried to say something about not being able to drive, or not wanting to drive, but I think he could see that I didn’t want to have him down there lifting the car while I was in it, so he opened the door and got in. I lifted as he pressed the gas and the car rolled up onto the asphalt as easily as if it had been on a ramp.

I thanked the man profusely, using every polite phrase I could think of, and bowed repeatedly as I climbed out of the rice patty and back into the car. It was 8:35. I was late. There was nothing I could do. I reached for my cell phone, but it was not in my bag. I couldn’t even call my boss and tell her I’d be late. My nerves were shot, my shirt was wet and embarrassingly dirty, and all I could think of was the look of irritation that was sure to be on my bosses face as she told me in English, “You are late!”

Sure enough, as I pulled into work, My Boss was hanging her head out the second story window, apparently waiting for me to show up. She waved politely to me, but I could see in her eyes that she was already going over how she would tell me in English not to be late anymore. I was, however, curious to see would react to my story. It was her car that I was driving after all, and driving off the road into the ditch was a stupid, but perfectly reasonable excuse for being late.
When I told her what happened, her reaction was less than relieving. She seemed concerned at first, but that was only because she thought I had gotten a flat tire. She listened to my story with only passing interest and then said, “I want you here at 8:20 from now on, okay?” I couldn’t believe it. I was standing in front of her in a terribly soiled wet shirt, and had explained that Methuselah and I had just lifted a car out of a rice patty, and she didn’t even blink. I was shocked, and a bit disappointed. I figured a story like the one I just told her deserved a little bit more than she was offering, even if I was late. But no, she didn’t show even the slightest apparent interest in what I thought was an amazing story. I walked away a little dejected, but relieved and resolved: Relieved that the car was okay, and resolved that I would take no more shortcuts.

Curse the narrow roads!

Curse the narrow roads, bless the tiny cars!

Heading down the main road into central Marugame on my way to work Monday morning I ran into a line of cars backed up for what looked like a quarter mile.  I checked my watch.  8:20 AM.  I had to be at work in ten minutes, and even without the traffic I would be cutting it pretty close.  I had already been late to work twice this month, and wasn’t interested in explaining again to my boss why I was couldn’t seem to arrive at 8:30am.  Not that I felt terribly bad about being late.  I didn’t really understand why she wants me there so early in the first place.  Every time I go it seems I hurry up to wait.  Even at 8:40am which is when I usually end up arriving, there are only two or three kids at the kindergarten, and the other teachers are already there.  Still, somehow I knew that this morning was not a good morning to be late.  My previous truancy had used up any leniency I may have merited, and this time by boss would say something for sure.  
Sitting at the end of that long line of cars, slowly inching forward as the merciless traffic light somewhere ahead changed from red to green to red in a blink, I weighed my options.  I could sit here waiting my turn with the other conformist drivers, stoically submitting to the tyranny of the traffic signal, and risk being incredibly late to work, or I could take action, find a shortcut, bend a traffic law, do something other than just sit there and watch my clock tick away.  To my left was a road (i.e. a narrow strip of asphalt barely wider than my car) that cut a dark line to the west through several waving rice patties before disappearing into a cluster of houses about two hundred yards away.  
‘Surely there’s a short cut through that neighborhood,’ I thought to my self, and before giving it another thought, I flipped on my signal, turned onto the asphalt balance beam, and headed off to find my shortcut.
8: 21 AM. Simply moving relieved some of my anxiety about being late for work, though once I got on the road something told me I wasn’t on a short cut.   The glorified footpath was narrow, but empty, and on either side of it stood mature rice stocks, heavy with this year’s crop, billowed in the wind, waving me onward.  It occurred to me after I turned that if there was a good shortcut in this neighborhood, at least a few of the thirty other cars in line with me would have known about it, but I was the only one who had turned.
8:22 AM. I took the first right I came to and headed down an even more narrow street, hoping I was making my way towards the main road that would take me to work.  However the road I was on only went a few blocks and then dead ended in someone’s driveway.  The road was too narrow to maneuver a three point turn, so I had no choice but to back up until I came to a driveway that I could turn around in.  
Driving on the left side of the road presents many difficulties, but none are quite as frustrating to me as the neural traffic jam that occurs when I attempt to steer in reverse.  Not only do I continually attempt to look over my right shoulder (which gives me a wonderful view of my seatbelt, but not the road), but I also seem to lose any sense of direction.  I try to turn right, and end up going left, and vise versa.  It’s like trying to use chopsticks in my left hand.
8:24 AM. Somehow I managed to back the little car fifteen feet and into someone’s empty driveway, throw it into drive and turn back out on to the narrow road.  As I maneuvered the turn, I heard a loud metallic thunk as I felt the road disappear from beneath my front driver’s side wheel.  

To be continued

Culture Shock #1

Culture Shock #1

While preparing flashcards for a morning lesson at the bilingual kindergarten early last week, my boss Fumiyo approached me and said. ‘Sumire’s mother called yesterday. She has requested that we no longer give Sumire hugs, or pick her up and carry her when she comes to the kindergarten.’ I stopped filing through flashcards.
‘She asked us to stop holding her?’ I said as an image of the three year old Sumire pulling on my hand and saying ‘hold me’ flashed across my mind. Sumire is not the youngest child at the school, but she is most definitely the smallest. She can’t weigh more than 22 or 23 pounds and her clothes often hang on her like sheets. She constantly wants to be held by one of the teachers and occasionally resorts to hitting to get her way.
‘Sumire’s mother is very busy,’ continued Fumiyo. ‘She is a single mother with three kids and she runs a very large drug store. She told me she doesn’t have time to hold Sumire, and doesn’t want her to get used to it here.’
We looked at each other for a moment without saying anything. When Fumiyo speaks to me in English it is difficult to read her tone, and though I assumed she must feel as shocked and dumbfounded as I did about what she had just said, I thought for a moment that she might be prepared to defend this mother. Then she said, “That’s kind of weird, isn’t it?”

a brief introduction and summary: for new comers!

For those of you who may be reading this for the first time, let me welcome you to our vast readership. If we were taking subscriptions, I am sure the income would be enough to invite all of you over to share a stick of gum when we get back to the United States, and we’re grateful for the interest. By way of introduction and explanation, I am a 24-year-old Oregonian married to a 24-year-old Oregonian (Melissa), and our tree hugging arms are still sore from being ripped away from their rainy home. Together we have a two year old little boy (Callan) whose hankering for sushi is only bested by his love for everything baseball, which makes him a great fit here in Japan.
I work 28 hours a week at Marugame International Academy (MIA), a small private cram school in downtown Marugame that offers classes in all major academic subjects covered on Japan’s annual proficiency tests, the most important of which is English.
Thanks to an overemphasis on grammar in public school English curricula, Japanese English language students get little or no in-class speaking opportunities. This unfortunate reality is bad for education, but great for people like me who actually get paid to speak their native language. Thus my primary job function is to provide exposure, direction, and correction to potential English speakers of all ages. In addition to the several children’s classes I teach, I visit a half dozen preschools, and meet with a few adult students as well.
Though there are many teachers at MIA, there is only a handful that I work with closely. Besides myself there is one other full time American teacher named Pat, and my wife Melissa teaches just four hours a week on Monday afternoons. My boss is a native Japanese speaker with a love for English that borders on unstable (she once told me she used to approach foreigners on the street and ask them to teach her how to cook their country’s food, just so she could get some English practice). Her son and daughter-in-law help out at the bilingual kindergarten, and her husband, in addition to his regular job as an engineer, takes care of the paperwork and accounting.
Now that I am here working, it seems difficult to pinpoint exactly why I wanted to come to Japan. I certainly harbor no deep desires to teach English conversation classes for life, nor do I find the study of language particularly enthralling. However, having served a mission for the LDS church in Japan four years ago, in precisely the same region as my current placement, and having studied the Japanese language both in high school and in college, the opportunity to come back as a ‘civilian’ was certainly inviting. More than that though, I think my wife and I were looking for a change of scenery, an opportunity to branch out from our Provo home before our family gets any bigger. And of course, the money making opportunity was also a large motivator, as was the potential for real work experience.
To prepare for this little excursion, my wife and I checked out every travel book on Japan in every library from Point of the Mountain to Spanish Fork Canyon, frequented every major Japanese informational website, blasted the teachers we were replacing with email after email full of questions about what to expect in the country, and spent thirty bucks on all-you-can-eat sushi at Asuka Japanese restaurant on University Parkway in Provo.

Guido and Ginko

Melissa is outside our kitchen window right now with a flashlight, checking the ground for one of the two geckos who currently live in our side yard and regularly frequent our window ledges at night to eat the bugs that gather there. A few minutes ago, while attempting to close the window, she noticed a pair of small suction cupped feet sticking out near the top of the window frame between the glass and the screen. Apparently, either Guido or Ginko (We can’t really tell them apart) had gotten himself stuck. Whether we tried to move the window, or the screen (both of which slide back and forth along their own tracks) we inevitably would cause quite a bit of discomfort to our little amphibious friend, but we had to close the window, so I very carefully tried to push the screen along its track until the gecko could escape. However, right as the gecko was nearing freedom, the screen slipped off its track and it and the gecko attached to it, fell to the ground.

Melissa just returned from the side yard with nothing to report. “Maybe he crawled off to die in peace.” She said. We’ll keep our eye out for him.